“You feel like you did something so wrong”: Women’s experiences of a loved one’s child sexual abuse material offending
A/Prof. Michael Salter1, Dr Delanie Woodlock, Mr Christian Jones
1UNSW
This article examines the experiences of female partners and relatives of child sexual abuse material (CSAM) offenders and the (il)legibility of their experiences within prevailing theoretical frameworks and policy responses to family violence. The article draws on the findings of an evaluation of PartnerSPEAK, an organisation in Victoria, Australia, that supports the non-offending partners, family and friends of CSAM offenders. Through our analysis of our survey and interviews with PartnerSPEAK clients, we map the absence of community and professional understanding that confronted women as they realised their partner or family member was a CSAM offender. We situate this gap within the “siloing” of domestic violence and child abuse as discrete areas of theory and practice, and the de-politicisation of child sexual abuse, in which child sexual abuse has been decoupled over time from feminist concerns with gendered violence and inequality. We trace how women navigated the systemic gaps and silences around their experiences and their development of a social and political framework through shared dialogue and advocacy. We argue that these insights offer a contemporary foundation and agenda for a feminist re-engagement with the politics of child sexual abuse.
Biography:
Dr Michael Salter is the Scientia Associate Professor of Criminology at the University of New South Wales. His research is focused on child sexual exploitation, gendered violence and complex trauma. He is an expert advisor to the Australian eSafety Commissioner, White Ribbon Australia and the Canadian Centre for Child Protection. He sits on the Board of Directors of the International Society for the Study of Trauma and Dissociation, who awarded him the 2018 Morton Prince Award for Scientific Achievement and appointed him as a Fellow of the Society in 2021.
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- Bail & Illusions of Justice
- Before we get to court
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- Borders & Risk
- Carceral Borders
- Changes in ‘youth crime’ – perceptions and realities
- Changing perspectives on ‘youth’ and young people
- Children & young people in custody
- Children in state care
- Coercive Control
- Communication underpins access to justice
- Community
- Concurrent Panel
- Consequences of Invasion
- Corrections and Penology
- Courts and Sentencing
- Crime and Media
- Crime and the City
- Crime in the Pacific
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- Crime Prevention
- Cultural Criminology
- Curabitur acconvallis
- Cybercrime
- Cybercrime victimisation
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- Digital Criminology
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- Encounters with Crime and Justice in the Pacific Islands
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- Everyday experiences of the internal border
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- Extending Punishment
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- Family Violence
- Forensic Criminology
- Gender and Crime
- Gender-based Crime in a Digital Age
- Getting the evidence: Police interviewing practices
- GPS geospatial tools and surveillance
- Green criminology
- Hidden punishment – fines and infringement notices
- Highlighting harm and resisting incarceration
- Illicit Drugs & Alcohol
- Immigration & Human Rights
- Improving prison practices
- Indigenous Criminology
- Inflicting Trauma
- Informing sentencing practice and policy
- Innovation in sentencing
- Innovative Data & Methodology
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- Inside and Outside the Prison
- Institutional Abuse
- Institutions of Harm and Victimisation
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- International dimension in sentencing
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- National and international focus
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- NGOs and Crime
- Non-governmental and voluntary sector organisations in criminal justice and drug policy processes
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- Oral Presentation
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- PANEL – Parental and close family incarceration
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- Plenary Keynote
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- Police Investigations
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- Policing Culture
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- Problems and Solutions in U.S. Criminal Justice
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- Programs and populations
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- Reoffending risk – bail gradual release community sanctions
- Restorative justice and diversion of young people
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- Risky bodies risky systems: Post-prison policy practice and experience
- Round Table
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- Sentencing
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- Southern and comparative criminology
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- State Crime and Structural Justice
- State Recognition and Possibilities for Justice: Gender Identity and Victimisation
- Sub-Plenary Panel
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- Visual and Sensory Criminology
- Visual Criminology: Policing the Image
- Vulnerable People and Human Rights
- White Collar Crime
- Women As Victims
- Working to support children and families of prisoners
- Working with young people reducing reoffending
- Wrongful Conviction
- Young people and violence victims and perpetrators
- Young People Crime and Justice
- “Police education: new models new approaches and emerging trends”